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Bullying
"When they go low, we go high"
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Bullying affects lots of people and can happen anywhere – at school, travelling to and from school and on the internet. There is no legal definition of bullying but it is usually defined as repeated behaviour that is intended to harm someone else physically or emotionally. This can often be aimed at certain people because of their race, religion, appearance or disability. It can often involve a power imbalance where someone uses their power such as physical strength, access to embarrassing information or popularity, in order to control or harm others.
Bullying can take many forms such as:
Physical bullying
This involves hurting someone’s body or possessions including:
- Hitting, kicking or pinching
- Spitting
- Tripping or pushing
- Taking or breaking someone’s things
- Making mean or rude hand gestures
Verbal bullying
This is saying or writing mean things and can include:
- Teasing
- Name-calling
- Taunting
- Threatening to cause harm
Cyber bullying
Cyberbullying refers to any bullying that occurs online; this can mean that it happens 24/7 as the internet is always there. In a recent survey by Bullying UK, 56% of young people said they have seen others being bullied online and 42% said that they felt unsafe online.
The most common places where cyberbullying occurs are:
- Social Media, such as Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, and TikTok
- Text messaging and messaging apps on mobile or tablet devices
- Instant messaging, direct messaging, and online chatting over the internet
- Online forums, chat rooms, and message boards, such as Reddit
- Online gaming communities
Social bullying
This includes hurting someone’s reputation or relationships such as:
- Leaving someone out on purpose
- Telling other children not to be friends with someone
- Spreading rumours about someone
- Embarrassing someone in public
Threatening behaviour
Threatening behaviour can be verbal or physical and can include:
- saying to someone that if they tell someone what is happening that something will happen to them like getting beaten up or attacked
- acting aggressively towards someone such as invading their personal space
- grabbing someone’s arm to make them think they are going to be hurt
Effects of bullying
Children who are bullied are more likely to:
Develop mental health problems (e.g., depression or anxiety)
- Have fewer friends
- Not be accepted by their peers
- Be wart and suspicious of others
- Have problems adjusting to school
- Don’t do as well as their peers in school
There is a strong link between bullying and mental health; the diagram below shows how young people with mental health difficulties are more likely to be bullied, as well as young people who are bullied are more likely to experience mental health difficulties.
Children who have experienced bullying are more likely to self-harm and are more likely to avoid school which could lead to Emotionally Based School Avoidance (EBSA). More information about EBSA can be found in our piece about worry and anxiety.
As well as understanding the impact of being bullied, it is equally important to consider why someone becomes a bully. It may sound strange, but there are negative effects from bullying for the bully themselves. Research tells us that around one third of individuals who bully have been bullied themselves and that bullies are twice as likely to have a criminal conviction than their peers in the future. Sometimes a bully can hate what they are doing to another person but their behaviour seems justified to them as they may have experienced traumatic events themselves. This feeling can override the sense of empathy for the victim and the competition between the two feelings can lead to a sense of stress – which can make the bully do it more.
Research has also shown that bystanders to bullying are also at increased risk of developing mental health difficulties such as anxiety or depression. This was the case for bystanders who supported the bully, as well as bystanders who supported the victim. The former may feel stress or guilt for not supporting the victim, and the latter may fear retaliation on them for getting the bully into trouble.
Recent research has shown that if you are bullied as a child or teenager, you are twice as likely to use mental health services in the future. Bullying can be a form of trauma as prolonged release of stress hormones on the body can physically alter brain development.
Teacher wellbeing
As with all matters of wellbeing taking time to focus on areas such as bullying helps to build an outlook that feeds into the interactions a teacher has with the young people they support. Whilst we are preparing ourselves to help others we must also look after ourselves, we’ve got some advice and guidance on this in the teacher wellbeing section
Working preventatively can help to stop bullying from happening in the first place. Teachers can do this through the ground rules within their classroom and through PSHE, ensuring the children understand what bullying is and how to stop it.
Preventative measures may not always stop bullying from happening though. It can often be very challenging for a young person to tell someone that they are being bullied as they may fear this will make the situation worse. Therefore, it is important to look out for potential signs of bullying such as:
- Being anxious or withdrawn
- Skipping lessons or school altogether
- Not having many friends
- Unexplainable injuries
- Lost or destroyed clothing or belongings
- Declining attainment
- Not eating
- Complaining of feeling sick
If there are concerns over a child or young person’s mental health, then it is important for teachers to provide emotional support for them. It is important for teachers to listen to children and young people who may have mental health difficulties so that they feel understood and valued. They could also be offered more targeted support such as having a key worker with whom they have a strong relationship, so they feel comfortable to talk about what’s going on. We’ve pulled together some tips on how to engage young people in discussions about mental health that might help with these tough conversations.
If there are ongoing concerns over a child’s mental health, schools can refer them to support services such as CAMHS or Educational Psychology, for more specialist support.
What is bullying?
There is no legal definition of bullying but it is usually defined as repeated behaviour that is intended to harm someone else physically or emotionally. This can often be aimed at certain people because of their race, religion, appearance or disability. Bullying can take many forms such as physical, verbal, cyber, social or threatening behaviour.
How does bullying effect mental health?
There is a strong link between bullying and mental health; children who are bullied are more likely to develop mental health problems, have fewer friends, not be accepted by their peers, be warty and suspicious of others, have problems adjusting to school, not do as well as their peers in school.
What can teachers do to improve and assist young people’s wellbeing affected by bullying?
Working preventatively can help to stop bullying from happening in the first place. Teachers can do this through the ground rules within their classroom ensuring the children understand what bullying is and how to stop it. Preventative measures may not always stop bullying so it is important to look out for potential signs of bullying.
3 top tips!
- If you have concerns about bullying, you should follow your school’s anti bullying procedures as soon as possible
- It is important to talk to children and young people about bullying, how it affects people involved and what they should do if they witness someone being bullied
- Buddying systems and peer mentoring can be effective ways of supporting children who are experiencing or at risk of bullying
Resources for Bullying
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An Introductory Self-Help Course in CBT (Get Self Help)
Find out moreEmotion regulation scenarios (Breathe Education)
Find out moreSigns of anger (Breathe Education)
Find out moreCharacter Strengths (Breathe Education)
Find out moreGood things about me (Breathe Education)
Find out moreBullying awareness CPD training (Anti-bullying Alliance)
Find out moreTen key principles (Anti-bullying Alliance)
Find out moreBullying awareness resources (Kidscape)
Find out moreAnti bullying resources (NSPCC)
Find out moreWhat Kids Can Do (Stopbullying.gov)
Find out moreMandi and her mobile (Young Minds & Beano)
Find out moreBullying is uncool (Beano)
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